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Remember...although it says
"OUCH!", it also kind of hits home a little bit (with me anyway).
It was posted by a man, here goes:
| "Girls, you spend your every waking moment on attracting and 'hooking' men, or worse, drooling over someone unattainable like me. Such an empty, meaningless existence! That's why you 'bash' men all the time rather than accepting them for the way God made us, you're junkies and you blame the 'pusher' for your habit. Look in the mirror beyond the warpaint and eyeliner, see your addiction and go cold turkey. Men put things like music, sports, livelihood, etc. first because THAT completes them. Then, finding a good woman and falling in love is the frosting on the cake, NOT the cake. You come into the world alone, you leave alone. Learn to enjoy your time on it alone. If true love joins you here, wonderful, if not c'est la vie, what else have you accomplished. Then perhaps, the whining and bashing will stop. You're feeling chained to something that isn't what you dreamed and fantasized about. You blame him when it's you who put the chain there. A man marries for the purest reason, because he loves a woman, not because his whole life and goals led up to it and now that weight is put on her! Someone once said : When a woman marries she fulfills her lifelong fantasy, when a man marries he forfeits his. Now, who is truly sacrificing for love?" |
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